In this deeply moving conversation, we sit down with Omondi Ochuka: a writer, teacher and author to explore his powerful journey through loss, and the lifelong work of healing. Rooted in creativity, community, and a quiet defiance of conventional masculinity, Omondi’s journey unfolds through stories of family, identity, and the lifelong work of becoming.
He talks about his new memoir, Precursor: An Unfolding, which blends personal stories and poetry on healing, vulnerability, and masculinity. Growing up on the autism spectrum, he navigated academic challenges, resistance to unjust school systems, and found his voice through journaling and creativity.
Turning to his health journey, he opens up about living with cancer since 2011, the emotional and financial strain of treatment, and the profound moment his daughter led a fundraiser for him in Sweden. His story weaves together fatherhood, vulnerability, and the realities of navigating Kenya’s healthcare system.
We also dive into the experiences that shaped him, finding refuge in creativity, and being raised by grandparents whose love held him through some of life’s hardest seasons. At the heart of his philosophy is a simple truth: healing is not linear. It’s an ongoing process that demands honesty, softness, and grace.
This episode is a reflection on grief, masculinity, community, and the courage it takes to remain soft in a world that often demands hardness. It invites us to rethink strength, embrace vulnerability, and hold space for each other’s unfolding.
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Listen in to learn:
- The story behind Precursor and Unfolding and its lessons on healing
- Why masculinity must make room for softness and emotional honesty
- How grief, fatherhood, and illness shaped his worldview
- Battling cancer & navigating Kenya’s healthcare system
- Autism, schooling challenges & resisting unjust systems
- How community support and creative expression sustained him
Resources & Mentions:
- Precursor: An Unfolding by Omondi Ochuka (Available on Nuria; Amazon coming soon)
- Ochuka on SoundCloud, Bandcamp & Medium
- Themes on masculinity, grief & healing
- Busy Being Born past episodes on fatherhood and community care
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